Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Friday, May 2, 2008
Dr. Office Horror...
When I went to the doctor today for the face fungus (not it's medical term) the weighed me. I am horrified by what that scale said. Time to make some changes for me. Not because someone said something mean to me, not because I have such a pretty face. Because it is time for me.
Two things I did today for me, to feel better for me:
1. Walked 1.25 miles on the tread.
2. Shared a dinner entree at Chinese instead of snarfing the whole thing myself.
Small is better than nothing. Keep up the progress, self. You can do it.
Two things I did today for me, to feel better for me:
1. Walked 1.25 miles on the tread.
2. Shared a dinner entree at Chinese instead of snarfing the whole thing myself.
Small is better than nothing. Keep up the progress, self. You can do it.
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
Saturday, February 23, 2008
Journaling update...
Food journaling has been VERY eye opening. I eat nothing but shit. And lots of it. It also helped me identify that I need to eat more fruits and veggies and less sugar. I knew I was deficient in the produce area, but putting it on paper really showed me by how much. There were two days in the last seven where my only actual fruit or vegetable consumed was juice. Well, if you count spaghetti sauce, I had that too. But still.
I also had a day when I binged on chocolate, big time. I ended up with a horrible headache by the end of the day and puked. I almost never puke, even when I'm sick. I sort of suspect it was a migraine, but I don't think I have ever had one before. It was not pleasant. If I had not been journaling, I don't think I would have noticed the food pattern.
Interesting and worth the three minutes a day it takes to write stuff down. My goal for the next week is to track the calories too. I probably don't want to know how bad it will be.
I also had a day when I binged on chocolate, big time. I ended up with a horrible headache by the end of the day and puked. I almost never puke, even when I'm sick. I sort of suspect it was a migraine, but I don't think I have ever had one before. It was not pleasant. If I had not been journaling, I don't think I would have noticed the food pattern.
Interesting and worth the three minutes a day it takes to write stuff down. My goal for the next week is to track the calories too. I probably don't want to know how bad it will be.
Sunday, February 17, 2008
Food Journaling
I read an article in Good Housekeeping or some other old lady magazine about food journaling the other day. I found it pretty simplistic and easy to do. One woman had lost something like 150lbs using the method. The main idea is to write everything you eat, every meal, every lick, every drink or nibble. The lady that lost that huge amount of weight made it a habit of writing down everything before she ate it. Want a candy bar, ok. Just write it in the book first. The idea is that you will really start to examine what you are putting in your body. You will watch for the proper balance of meats vs. breads vs veggies. Of course, I could use a whole page of just candy. Ummm, Candy. Candy is my weakness. Sugar, sweets, yumminess. If the world's sugar supply evaporated today, I would lose 100 lbs in a snap. How do you quit a socially acceptable addiction? I wonder if the notebook method may be a way to help me become more aware, at least. Can't hurt to try for two weeks, I think. So. starting tomorrow, I journal. I can do it. I can discipline myself. Ja?
Sunday, January 20, 2008
Ouchies...
I fell off the treadmill today. I'm hurting. I messed up my right leg pretty badly and my left knee is swelled up. My ass totally aches. Hopefully, it doesn't bind up over night. I may have to have someone come and roll me out of bed in the morning.
Thursday, January 10, 2008
I'm walking, yes indeed...
I have walked three times so far. If I figure the cost, I have now paid $133.33/workout. Perfect world, I would like to get that down to only $1. I don't know that I am feeling any better so far, but the miles I have talked are more than I would have without the treadmill. I have to pat myself on the back, I'm totally exhausted today yet I still walked. Yay me.
Tuesday, January 8, 2008
Monday, January 7, 2008
Fricking Fried Potatoes...
I ate fries today. I didn't even try to resist. I was out to lunch, it was chicken basket day. They were just there. So I ate them. Guess TOMORROW is the first day of the rest of my no fries life.
I did skip snacking today. Maybe that at least partially makes up for the fries snafu. Let's hope.
I did skip snacking today. Maybe that at least partially makes up for the fries snafu. Let's hope.
Sunday, January 6, 2008
Ok, I did it. I bought myself a treadmill. I am pretty darn out of shape, so it was a workout to use it for 15 minutes at 2% incline. I'm sweating and my legs are a bit rubbery, but I do feel accomplished.
Gold's Gym 450 Treadmill
Gold's Gym 450 Treadmill
Step by step, oooh baby...
I need to manage myself in small, easily consumed bites. Here is my first goal set:
Goal: To button those jeans I bought on ebay but have never fit in
Date to Complete: March 6, 2008
Steps to Completion:
Goal: To button those jeans I bought on ebay but have never fit in
Date to Complete: March 6, 2008
Steps to Completion:
- Limit portions of food I consume, stop the constant grazing all day long.
- Continue eating meals on smaller plates, it has really cut the amount I eat during meals and I haven't noticed any extra hunger.
- Purchase a treadmill within the next week. Start with 10 minutes at a time. Work up to 5 miles, three days a week.
Saturday, January 5, 2008
ch-ch-ch-changes...
Today the tears are gone. My feelings are still hurt. But I am recovering. I have sort of developed a fuck you attitude. I'm not sure if that is due to a protective urge or if I feel that some of what was said was off base. I think probably a little of both.
I have decided it is time to make some healthy choices. Small, steady and do-able is my goal. Here is what I implemented today:
- Eliminate one bad-for-me food every two weeks. This week's choice? French Fries. I don't even like fries that much, but I always eat them since they come with the chicken or burger or whatever. This is a change that should save me several hundred calories each week with little pain. Let's figure that I eat at McDonalds once per week, usually having a medium fry (382 calories, 20.1 grams of fat) and at our local bar and grill where I have a large side of curly fries once per week (631 calories, 37 grams fat!).
- Second small change. Start using my salad plates instead of platter-sized dinner plates for at home meals. I found today that I served probably half the rice at dinner that I normally would and had only one roll because that is all that would fit on the plate. I am fully aware that portion size is a huge problem for me. I have read that this will help some.
I have a few more thoughts, but they can wait for tomorrow. As my hero Scarlett says, it is another day.
Friday, January 4, 2008
Longest Intro Post Ever Created...
I have always been a big person. Back in grade school, when I was very young, chubby kids were cute. Puberty hit early and my breasts became large and heavy. I gained more weight to take the attention off them. By 9th grade, I was a D cup and probably weighed 200 lbs.
High school came, I was active, enjoyed spending time with my friends, was in track and worked part-time. I was in lots of clubs and groups. I was also still fat. I didn’t have a date until I was almost done with college. He was a friend. It really wasn’t too romantic.
My mom taught me from the time I was young to comfort with food. Someone was mean to me, hurt my feelings? Have a cookie. Celebration time? Let’s go to dinner. Lonely, have a snack. I never learned to grow out of it.
After college, I got a job where I worked on my feet for 10 hours a day. I had great leg tone, nice muscles. But I still topped the scale at an easy 250. It became a shield to me. A way to protect myself from the mean people of the world. If I were heavy, I wouldn’t have to leave my comfort zone. People won’t approach me because everyone knows that fat people are no fun to be around. Men might make passes at girls with glasses, but you can pretty much forget about those with big, flabby asses.
When I was in my late 20’s, I lost the job that had a nice amount of physicality to it. After a period of unemployment I found what might be the death of me: the desk job. Nowadays, I sit in my chair from eight until noon, go to a fast food place with coworkers where I sit and stuff, then return by 1…ok 1:30 and sit again until 5. There is little movement and snacking is frequent.
I have probably gained 50 lbs. since starting this job. Of course, I don’t know for sure since I refuse to weigh myself and actually avert my eyes when they weigh me at the doctor office.
My life at home is actually much worse. I get home by 5:30, feed the dog then start that full-evening binge that is TV time. I start with dinner, move my way to desert, stop for an hour or so, then move on to snack. I love my carbs. And candy. And baked goods. And potato chips. Butter. Chicken Parmesan. Cream soups. Noodles. Popcorn with real butter, salt and chocolate chips.
I am sedentary and solitary. I like to be alone. At least that is what I tell myself. Only my dog, Sami knows for sure. Exercise is one of the few 4-letter words that I won’t let slip from my mouth. Shit, damn, fuck, even the occasional c-bomb? Totally acceptable. But sweat, exercise, gym…forget about it.
Even with all this, I sometimes wonder why I’m fat.
I can be a dumbass sometimes.
So, what turned everything around? My answer came in the form of a well-intentioned co-worker.
L is heavy like me but is quite a bit shorter. She tells me that she weighs 318. I don’t think I weigh 318. But who knows? She is a married mom to two girls. They are in their teens. They too are heavy. B, the older of the two is around 280. L’s husband tops 350.
Recently they went on a diet as a family. They are doing Atkins. L has lost 10 lbs. and has now decided to be the spokesman for fat folk everywhere. I was her first target.
I was in her office for something and she decided it was time to give me "the talk". Anyone who has ever been overweight knows that that means. It starts like this…
Them: "I really care about you. You have such a pretty face." Too bad about that big, fatty gut hanging out otherwise.
Me: "Uh-huh." Knowing in my head where this is going and damning my mother’s good job at raising children that prevents me from walking away.
Them: "My new diet is really working. I feel so much better. Have YOU thought of doing something?" You really should, fatass. You really need it.
Me: "Uh-huh." How do I get out of this now? In my head at this point, I’m thinking, shut up, shut up, SHUT up, I don’t want to hear any more!
Them: "I worry that my daughter is going to turn out like you. Oh, crap! That’s not what I meant. I don’t mean that I worry that she will end up fat and alone and over 30. You have such a pretty face."
Me: "It’s ok, I know what you mean." FUCK mom for these damn manners.
Them: Now trying vigilantly to dig themselves out of the hole they are creating… "You know, everyone talks about how big your belly is. Maybe you should wear shirts that fall below your thighs to cover it up. I have a catalog if you would like. Not that I think you need to, of course. It’s just that… Maybe you should have that surgery. You know the one where they make your stomach smaller."
Me: "I have to go." Bitch.
Them: "You have such a pretty face! I just hate that everyone calls you the fat lady with the big belly."
Then, in what is one of my weaker moments in life, I break in to tears. TEARS! I don't cry. It's not one of my things.
I feel like shit. I don’t want to be known as the fat lady. Hell, no one does. No one wants to be known for what makes them different. For what makes them a freak. I want to be thin. I want to be pretty. I want to fall in love and make babies.
I’m just not sure how to do it.
I do know that something needs to be done. I’m tired of feeling sad. Tired of feeling lonely. Tired of hiding myself under a layer of fat.
Today, when I got home from work, I had a choice to make. Do I comfort myself in the manner that has worked for the past 33 years or do I decide today is the day to make a change? Do I go and stuff my face with sugar or salt? Or do I make myself a sensible dinner and call it a night? My first reaction when I opened the door was to throw myself on the bed and have a nice sob. Since I spent my lunch hour doing that, I decide to pour some feelings out instead. It may be cathartic, it may just be a stopgap until I can have another good cry, or it may be the start of something new. Guess I’ll just have to wait and see.
High school came, I was active, enjoyed spending time with my friends, was in track and worked part-time. I was in lots of clubs and groups. I was also still fat. I didn’t have a date until I was almost done with college. He was a friend. It really wasn’t too romantic.
My mom taught me from the time I was young to comfort with food. Someone was mean to me, hurt my feelings? Have a cookie. Celebration time? Let’s go to dinner. Lonely, have a snack. I never learned to grow out of it.
After college, I got a job where I worked on my feet for 10 hours a day. I had great leg tone, nice muscles. But I still topped the scale at an easy 250. It became a shield to me. A way to protect myself from the mean people of the world. If I were heavy, I wouldn’t have to leave my comfort zone. People won’t approach me because everyone knows that fat people are no fun to be around. Men might make passes at girls with glasses, but you can pretty much forget about those with big, flabby asses.
When I was in my late 20’s, I lost the job that had a nice amount of physicality to it. After a period of unemployment I found what might be the death of me: the desk job. Nowadays, I sit in my chair from eight until noon, go to a fast food place with coworkers where I sit and stuff, then return by 1…ok 1:30 and sit again until 5. There is little movement and snacking is frequent.
I have probably gained 50 lbs. since starting this job. Of course, I don’t know for sure since I refuse to weigh myself and actually avert my eyes when they weigh me at the doctor office.
My life at home is actually much worse. I get home by 5:30, feed the dog then start that full-evening binge that is TV time. I start with dinner, move my way to desert, stop for an hour or so, then move on to snack. I love my carbs. And candy. And baked goods. And potato chips. Butter. Chicken Parmesan. Cream soups. Noodles. Popcorn with real butter, salt and chocolate chips.
I am sedentary and solitary. I like to be alone. At least that is what I tell myself. Only my dog, Sami knows for sure. Exercise is one of the few 4-letter words that I won’t let slip from my mouth. Shit, damn, fuck, even the occasional c-bomb? Totally acceptable. But sweat, exercise, gym…forget about it.
Even with all this, I sometimes wonder why I’m fat.
I can be a dumbass sometimes.
So, what turned everything around? My answer came in the form of a well-intentioned co-worker.
L is heavy like me but is quite a bit shorter. She tells me that she weighs 318. I don’t think I weigh 318. But who knows? She is a married mom to two girls. They are in their teens. They too are heavy. B, the older of the two is around 280. L’s husband tops 350.
Recently they went on a diet as a family. They are doing Atkins. L has lost 10 lbs. and has now decided to be the spokesman for fat folk everywhere. I was her first target.
I was in her office for something and she decided it was time to give me "the talk". Anyone who has ever been overweight knows that that means. It starts like this…
Them: "I really care about you. You have such a pretty face." Too bad about that big, fatty gut hanging out otherwise.
Me: "Uh-huh." Knowing in my head where this is going and damning my mother’s good job at raising children that prevents me from walking away.
Them: "My new diet is really working. I feel so much better. Have YOU thought of doing something?" You really should, fatass. You really need it.
Me: "Uh-huh." How do I get out of this now? In my head at this point, I’m thinking, shut up, shut up, SHUT up, I don’t want to hear any more!
Them: "I worry that my daughter is going to turn out like you. Oh, crap! That’s not what I meant. I don’t mean that I worry that she will end up fat and alone and over 30. You have such a pretty face."
Me: "It’s ok, I know what you mean." FUCK mom for these damn manners.
Them: Now trying vigilantly to dig themselves out of the hole they are creating… "You know, everyone talks about how big your belly is. Maybe you should wear shirts that fall below your thighs to cover it up. I have a catalog if you would like. Not that I think you need to, of course. It’s just that… Maybe you should have that surgery. You know the one where they make your stomach smaller."
Me: "I have to go." Bitch.
Them: "You have such a pretty face! I just hate that everyone calls you the fat lady with the big belly."
Then, in what is one of my weaker moments in life, I break in to tears. TEARS! I don't cry. It's not one of my things.
I feel like shit. I don’t want to be known as the fat lady. Hell, no one does. No one wants to be known for what makes them different. For what makes them a freak. I want to be thin. I want to be pretty. I want to fall in love and make babies.
I’m just not sure how to do it.
I do know that something needs to be done. I’m tired of feeling sad. Tired of feeling lonely. Tired of hiding myself under a layer of fat.
Today, when I got home from work, I had a choice to make. Do I comfort myself in the manner that has worked for the past 33 years or do I decide today is the day to make a change? Do I go and stuff my face with sugar or salt? Or do I make myself a sensible dinner and call it a night? My first reaction when I opened the door was to throw myself on the bed and have a nice sob. Since I spent my lunch hour doing that, I decide to pour some feelings out instead. It may be cathartic, it may just be a stopgap until I can have another good cry, or it may be the start of something new. Guess I’ll just have to wait and see.
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